Corey’s Cross.....

1/31/11 .....

is a red leaf pottery cross. It was a Christmas gift from my dear friend and prayer bud of many years, Wynellen. It has just become Corey’s cross these last few weeks, as it has served as my reminder to consistently pray for him. Lately, Corey, my precious son-in-law, has had a lot on his plate. Plus, he’s married to spontaneous, outgoing, fun-loving, lady of a 1000 projects, “my” Molly and is father of Owen, an energetic and extremely verbal 3-yr. old.

The cross rests on the desk by my prayer chair---though it has been known to move around, I try to keep it very visible. Sometimes I carry it with me as I walk around because it nestles right in my hand and even has a smoothed out place for my thumb.

Mostly I’ve been praying Philemon verses 4-7, that he might be refreshed in the Lord as his life has so often refreshed others. I don’t want him drained dry by always giving out and not taking time for refreshment himself. Following James 1:5 I’ve also inserted his name in the verse as I pray it---“that he (Corey) might seek wisdom from the Lord in all things.”

Corey’s cross reminds me to pray but…..sometimes I need reminders to keep me from drifting off even during those prayer times. Does your mind ever do that when praying?

At last week’s Spiritual Life Conference, Dr. Crawford Loritts emphasized that God’s people have “drifting” in their spiritual DNA. We "drift" from our purpose or goals, or "drift" from our good intentions, or “drift” from our commitments. Our mind can even drift right in the middle of our prayers----at least mine can.

So…..when that happens, I squeeze it a little harder and hold it---it’s like a little “discipline” wake-up call. I begin thanking God for that reminder of praying for Corey upon every remembrance of him (Philemon 4). Is there someone you can thank God for and pray a verse on his/her behalf?

Just do the next right thing…….

1/29/11 We have lots of these NIKE swooshes around our house to remind us to “Just Do It.” But I think there should be delineation to ”it.” Doing “it” in life can be very self-serving if we don’t define “it.”

Confession in Thursday’s blog (1/27/11) showed that my “it” is sometimes defined by ease and convenience. I’m still musing on that conviction.

The Hasslens’ recent Twitter entry shared, “Hardly anything worth doing is easy, until we get to heaven.” (John Piper) The Reverend Martin Luther King, Jr. is quoted as saying "The time is always right to do what is right." II Corinthians 13:7, Paul states "Now we pray to God that you do no wrong; not that we ourselves may appear approved, but that you may do what is right,...." Even a recent SGA sign outside the HHS cafeteria had a reminder for me, “It’s important to do the right thing even if it’s not convenient.”(There's that convicting term again.)

All of those comments, quotes, and signs just kept hammering at me. But God……………lead me to my blue blog folder.

That folder had a CA article notation for “just do the next right thing” that not only delineated “it” for me but also gave an antidote of encouragement---aka prayer. Dr. Scott Morris told of an encounter with Dr. John Nash, who without prompting, shared the following: "Every morning I pray for one thing. Courage. I pray for courage to do the next right thing in the eyes of God.”

When I choose to do “it” in the upcoming days in my own life, I hope this wisdom will stick with me!

All about EASE!

1/27/11 “Easing into my day” is right up there with one of my top favorite things. An alarm is an antithesis of ease, especially one that goes off at 4:24. As for most working women who set an alarm 5-6 days a week, ease seems to be a foreign term. Obviously I’m looking for ease in all the wrong places. So why do I keep seeking it? Should I even be looking?

Ease, to me, is lack of stress or frustration----things falling into place according to my schedule. Ease is CONVENIENCE in all caps!

According to my Bible marginalia, Schaeffer (probably Francis) said, and I paraphrase, “the 2 stumbling blocks in the western world to living a Christian life were that Americans had no higher philosophy of life than-- 1) the pursuit of ease, that brings personal peace, and 2) affluence.” Whoa, that’s pretty condemning. I don’t think of my self as one who seeks affluence but I have definitely spent a good bit of time and energy rearranging my life to accommodate ease whenever possible.

Do I even want a “religion of convenience?” I don’t. Yet sometimes my very actions belie this. Certainly God’s word has some stern admonitions for pursuit of ease and affluence. Just take a look at two facets of the life of the wicked as recorded in Psalm 73:12. Behold, these are the wicked; And always at ease, they have increased in wealth. (NASB)

I think I’ll ease on down the road to ponder this awhile.

Nutritional Noshing

1/26/11 Kale is all the rage. The healthy chip. The most nutritional snack on the planet. Settling on the couch with my daily crossword, following my “snow day” sugar overload, I heard a "Today" show guest extolling the yumminess of Kale chips---all the crunch of a chip but obviously loaded with every vitamin and anti-oxidant known to man.

What’s a girl to do? Head to Easy Way, buy the kale, follow the easy recipe and voilà! The first 3 parts were easy but somehow the voilà never came. Hubby’s comment ranged from, “It tastes like fried air. “ to “ I feel like I just snorted volcanic ash.” Feeling guilty I ate a few more before dumping them in the trash.

Guilt was compounded as 2 days later Gina Neely showed this grand new “kale chip” recipe on “Down Home with the Neelys,” Food Network show (Pat even asked for more) Then, Monday’s “Recipe for Health” column in the Commercial Appeal also extolled the virtues of kale, giving a recipe calling for a special variety of kale, not the curly variety I had used.

Certainly there are things that are good for us, things we all need to be healthy. Yet, tastes/methods vary so what might benefit one does not exactly suit the “taste” of another. It’s that way in Bible study as well. I have friends who are reading through the Bible this year, one has actually cut her Bible into 4ths and is following a very strict calendar while the other is using a chronological Bible. Both are pleased with their chosen method. I, on the other hand, prefer this year to focus on only one book (Isaiah) through a “structured” setting that holds me accountable. Of course, I always have the option to springboard from something I read in a devotional or hear in a sermon. Again, it’s all about choices.

However as Larry and I choose our favorite Las Delicias chips, we are wondering what all the kale hype is about---we just don’t have a “taste” for that snack.

Choices???

1/25/11 Choices, mental or emotional? What made me choose the rich Bellagio hot chocolate (with whipped cream, no less) along with the cinnamon sugar sprinkled toast fingers made from Front Street’s Big Ono Bake Shop’s delicious butter rolls?
I chose them over the oatmeal, grapefruit and green tea.
In the 70s, Flip Wilson used to declare, “The devil made me do it!” It is a lot easier to “blame” others for our poor choices, even old Satan himself. Easier than taking responsibility for our own actions. I can even rationalize that the weather made me do it? Cold and snowy. Such conditions seem to call for something warm. Hm-m-m isn’t oatmeal with a “cuppa” green tea warm enough? Maybe it was my body’s craving for sugar, which admittedly is fairly prevalent lately. Regardless of the excuses, according to WW points or any other dietary programs, I made a poor choice.

So what do I do? Sticking my finger down my throat is not an appealing option to me. This choice has literally made me sick---too much sugar, maybe. It has just gotten me down. So, what’s next?

Do I metaphorically pick “myself up, dust myself off and start all over again?” Those lyrics, from an old song Mother used to sing, are about someone struggling to dance and seem most appropriate for one who dubs her life a “dance.”

Belt of Truth

1/24/11 Buckle up folks of faith---If we’re going to stand firm and hold our ground in the struggles of life we face, we need to put on the whole armor of God. (Ephesians 6: 10-17) God’s word is a part of that body armor. Today, because it’s Monday, we’re going to “put on” the belt of truth. Ephesians 6:4a (w/different versions included to aid your meditation)

Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, (NIV)

So stand strong, with the belt of truth tied around your waist, (Message)

Stand your ground, putting on the belt of truth and the body armor, (NLT)

Stand therefore, having your loins girt about with truth KJV

THOTS (Trusting Him On This Scripture)---God’s Word is His revealed truth. Is that the truth referred to here? Is it the belt of truth that holds everything else together? How about truthfulness in my own life? Is “standing” an aspect of practicing the truth that I do know? Does my lifestyle reflect His truth? Is knowing and understanding God’s truth the best defense for fighting those battles in my mind? Is “truth,” in and of itself, all the protection one needs? I think not. I think we need action with knowledge, thus the imperative to “stand” with the belt of truth. What do you think?

Kingly Prayers Needed

1/23/10 The Kate-William betrothal is on every one’s tongue. A royal wedding is planned this spring for Prince William and “commoner” Kate Middleton. “First Commoner to Marry Heir to Throne in 350 Years” is how the Atlanta Journal Constitution put it. It’s big news not only because everyone loves a royal wedding but because he is 2nd in line to the throne of one of the most powerful countries in the world. He could presumably be seated on the throne within my (and your) lifetime. That’s big. Big because though the monarch's authority over the Church of England is not strong, the position is still very relevant to the church. Possibly prayer could connect the monarch and the church in more than a symbolic capacity. That would be really BIG.
So what should one pray for a future king? Years ago, I purchased a Common Book of Prayer for a mere £1, from a little antique store in Horley, England.

The Book of Common Prayer is a permanent feature of the Church of England's worship, much loved for its beautiful language and its source for rituals and ceremonies. Since this book is a model and inspiration for worship throughout England and is also foundational for the tradition of common prayer for morning and evening, I thought this would be a good place to begin praying. These prayers, now even available on-line, are taken from scripture and some are the confessional prayers of King David himself in Psalm 51. The apostles’creed and Lord’s prayer are included as well.

Though the copy I have includes prayers for King George, Prince William’s great-great grandfather, my prayer is that the future King and his betrothed will add prayer to their daily agendas. Maybe just picking up The Common Book of Prayer will be a good, familiar place to start. Praying together could certainly be a great beginning for their own relationship as well as preparation for the future monarchy. Long live King Jesus!

Kingly Prayers

1/20/11 Years ago when I first joined a group of gals for a Bible Study, the “leader” (that’s using the term loosely) began with prayer. We all took turns leading from a prescribed text without much Bible knowledge to back us up, so prayer was a very smart place to start. That night in the small den on Swan Ridge Circle someone asked where Hezekiah was in the Bible. Several gals thumbed furiously through their Bibles assuming that Hezekiah was a book in the Old Testament. I having barely enough knowledge to find the Old Testament just sat there. As it turned out, I’m glad I did because together we all discovered that Hezekiah was a king, not a book in the Bible. I learned a lot that night about how limited I was in Bible knowledge.
This past Monday night at BSF, when Hezekiah was discussed I was immediately taken back to that previous time of embarrassment. Yet, I didn’t stay in that frame of mind. I was grateful for the Lord’s patience with me and for the tremendous Bible teaching I have been offered since those humiliating beginnings. So, I prayed that the Lord would teach me the truth he had for me through this “side” lesson on Hezekiah in Isaiah 37.

The Lord taught me how Hezekiah prayed----
laying his enemy’s words before the Lord (v.14),
with a focus in his prayer of:

• who God is….the God of Israel… (v.16),
  
• God’s uniqueness…a God who hears….the living God (v.17),
  
• a real God not like a god made by work of men’s hands (v.19)
  
• a true God to whom Hezekiah can make petition for deliverance.
  

Isaiah, the prophet, then sent word to Hezekiah from the Lord, the God of Israel….”Because you have prayed to me….” And He gave the answer.

All of this had me asking: Do I spread out everything before the Lord? Am I preoccupied with His greatness and glory when I pray or do I just ask and ask and ask?
God is teaching me that the heart of prayer is knowing Him and acknowledging His greatness, not personal petitions.

Hezekiah was a king and his prayers were kingly because he prayed to the King of Kings. Further study this week took me to the book of Kings, which is in the Old Testament, and relates to Hezekiah’s reign. When I opened my NAS Bible to II Kings 18, I found highlights from that study 30+ years ago when a gracious God helped me not only find Hezekiah but also helped me find a deeper personal relationship with the King of Kings.

PATHLESS IN MEMPHIS

1/17/11 Old Testament folks took to winding paths (Judges 5:6) and paths that lead nowhere….paths of all who forget God. (Job 6:18 & 8:13) I felt that way last week---wandering off path---sometimes just walking in circles, unable to see the right path----NOT the path of life. That path is sure whether I make a few deviations in my daily walk of not. I just didn’t seem to be on the best path---though I had more time available to spend with the Lord.

One day I had a glorious 4 hr. time but the rest of the time with Him seemed to be relegated to “time leftover” status. I was focused on self-stuff---a seemingly endless check list of completing projects, saving money, clearing clutter, family worries, doctor’s appointments, etc.

“Come, let us go 
up to the mountain of the LORD, (i.e. to a place for meditation) to the temple of the God of Jacob. (Why? So that He can teach us.) He will teach us his ways, so that we may walk in his paths.” (Isaiah 2:3) (We can’t walk it if we don’t clearly see/know His way.)

I like the verb tense here as Psalm 16:11 is quoted in Acts. It is indeed past tense for me because He has already made His path known to me---I just have to reconnect with Him so that He can refill me as I joyfully sit in His presence---not just marking off the time.

You have made known to me the paths of life; you will fill me with joy in your presence.’ (Acts 2:28)

REAR VIEW REFLECTIONS

1/16/11 What’s in your “rear view” reflections of life? Pain? Disappointment? Fear? For those of us with cancer in our rear view mirror, we have to be careful. 
Just like in driving, we have to use our rear view mirror as a quick indicator of the next right thing. We don’t keep looking in the rear view mirror as we thrust forward. The results could be disastrous, even life threatening. For me this last week, it’s been a real temptation to do more than glance at my past---my cancer past. Maybe it’s because it’s been two years ago this month that my MAC Journey began.

Yet, though I know for preventative reasons, I need to continually be aware, I also know that it’s unhealthy to “dwell” on those thoughts. We can’t live a healthy life living in the past. Nor can we enjoy the present and future if our view is skewed by our rear view. Thoughts of cancer reoccurrences can really skew ones view.

Yesterday’s Jesus Calling reminded me that it’s all about focus. “If you gaze too long at the myriad of problems around you (past or present, Dotsy) you will sink under the weight…..”

A quote in my Bible attributed to Fran says, “Gaze on Jesus; glance at all else.” That is worthy of reflection.