Saturday, January 12, 2013

Thru the seasons of friendship…..


1/12/12 From faculty wives' meetings and Campus School PTA to weddings and births of grands, there are some friendships that just span generations along with several house moves. Sally is such a friend. A friend in the faith. Hubby still pesters her for her strawberry salad which is his fave. She brought it to him in 1974 after the diving tragedy. It was one of the few things he could even eat because his grief was so deep. She and I have also shared “C” journeys, though hers was much worse than mine.
Nowadays we share the “funeral factor” as we have buried our parents. But how blessed to be there with each other during those times. Today I had the privilege of being on “kitchen crew” at her house just as she did for me when Larry’s folks passed away. Her daddy, Frank Smith, was such a fine man and a great storyteller, so it was a privilege to “man” the kitchen in his honor…. and fun to laugh at the precious retelling of little Mason’s comment, “My grandpa’s in that box right there, but his soul is in heaven.” Smart youngster!

That’s what friends are for…..being there---in every season of life, especially the hard ones.