These somewhat “random reasons” were listed just as they came to mind and will probably disappoint many because they are not flowery, romantic sounding things. I'm sure they wouldn't be at the top of a "match.com" list---but these are the kinds of things that are at the top of mine. Maybe you married folks, will recognize little gestures or similar things in your own relationship that you have taken for granted. Now maybe you can see them in a new light and be thankful for them.
8/14/09
To: Larry
From: Dotsy
August 9, 2009
40 Things I Love About You
1. You love the Lord2. You love me
3. You rub my back nightly, without me asking everytime
4. You took dancing lessons so we could dance together
5. You’re never too tired to tell our grandboys stories
6. Your concern for your birds
7. Your sense of humor
8. Your larryisms---you’ve created your own language
9. You read the Bible aloud to me one year because you knew I had never done that
10. Shared memories
11. You make the bed
12. You’re fun
13. My “ready” toothbrush
14. My cuppa---you make it just right
15. Your ability to find all that I lose, esp. glasses
16. Your kindness toward your mother
17. Your love for my family
18. You have lots of friends
19. Your willingness to take Ann & me to a chick flick.
20. You can cook steaks on the grill---the best.
21. You anticipate my needs before I do
22. Your dishwater hands
23. Your savvy with superglue
24. Your blue eyes
25. Your nursing ability
26. Your willingness to drive Miss Dotsy lots of places
27. You love to shop
28. Your willingness to dance evertyime our song plays
29. Your overt joy when with our grandboys
30. Your generosity
31. Your athletic prowess even in your 6th decade
32. Your willingness to use coupons
33. Your tolerance of my “to-go boxes”
34. Your head full of gorgeous white hair
35. Your willingness to eat leftovers and at least act like you enjoy them—maybe you do
36. 40 years of frosting my hair
37. Your patience
38. Your willingness to read and review all the Harry Potter and Eragon books for me
39. Your perseverance in weeding and watering my flowers
40. For all of these and all that I am when I am with you, I love you!