Tuesday, November 18, 2025

TUESDAY TREAT!

What a treat!
When one's youngest grand receives a special stuffed animal from her dad's recent Bahama's trip, she is all smiles!
When granddaughter chooses to name her "piggie" Dotsy after her grandmother. Grandmother is all smiles!

Grandchildren are the crown of the aged. (Proverbs 17:6)

Truely a Tuesday treat for this grandmother!

Monday, November 17, 2025

MUSICAL MONDAY!

Meditation Monday became musical Monday thanks to longtime friend Doris' sharing this YouTube with me "As the Deer Pants" by David Phelps.....
.......and even longer-time friend Melody sharing the hymn which always brought tears to both, Fred Laughlin, her dad and her church friend, Bill Simmons as well. "Because He Lives" 

Hoping Musical Monday links  "work"* on this entry so God can use it to help draw you unto Himself.

*Might have to skip ad to get to the music

Friday, November 14, 2025

KINDNESS: DEMENTIA'S BEST RX!

God's word gives us truth that guides our lives.....from birth until we meet our Savior in eternity. Sometimes He also allows struggles that we can learn from, especially in different season's of life. With four friends in Memory Care facilities this last year alone, I've seen the positive effects from those who have an understanding spouse walking alongside them at every step.

A recent "prequel" book I read, had me at the "dedication" & I kept reading.  
This book is dedicated to every one living with dementia, 
and to those who care for them.
As I began reading, I appreciated the background of the years of marriage which laid the groundwork of their long past. It rang out to me that all of us have things about our past that always live within. I know in my own life that I can remember lots from my past. As a twosome we can often finish one another's sentences or help recall a person's name, or a place or event. Often that helps if it is done in a quiet gentle way. However, the age-related ? short- term memory is suffering greatly. Even chatting can take its toll if one forgets where certain ideas are going. Many twosomes might have the same difficulties. As author Joe Siple said, "We don't have to have dementia to forget things." (p. 96) To me, it's the response to those lapses by a loved-one that brings tension.

My take away from the author's concepts of kindness toward dementia in this novel: Agreeing is more effective than challenging or "discounting with a deep belittling sigh of a "not again response"; Apologizing can be restorative if sincere; Allow the love through the years to be remembered and put the good of your loved one, regardless of mental or physical condition, before self.  
He who loves his wife, loves himself. (Ephesians 5:28, ESV)
Being kind to each other is the best response, dementia or not.

Wednesday, November 12, 2025

LANGUAGE IN OUR LINEAGE!

Growing up in a small town in Kentucky, I had a definitive "hick" accent--not rural, but small town, informal. 
I think of it as a language with lots of apostrophes. 
I wadn't plannin' on goin' down to Miss'ippi! (Siri tried to re-spell all those words) Last year when we moved to western North Carolina, I heard some similar, yet familiar "talk"----the grammarian in me couldn't help but smile.
I still emphasize the use of lay as to put or place, and lie as to rest or recline! Just ask my kids or grands!

This past week I read Jan Karon's most recent book, Beloved
The book took me back to a similar language that was in her lineage growing up in western North Carolina. She added a few new characters who lacked certain enunciation skills but the story line, with a Christmas theme, still focused often on the kindness of Father Tim.

At 88, she now lives in Black Mountain, NC. 
Beloved began with a dedication For Candace, Beloved Child of Light 
The book's brief prologue read, 
Beloved, 
let us love one another, 
for love is from God.
1st John 4:7    
I was glad I read the book's AFTERWORD because i realized the challenging time in her own life which deeply affected her and kept her from writing. Her only child and beloved daughter, Candace Freeland died of Stage 4 Pancreatic cancer. Without her, life was "without savor", Karon said. (Beloved. p. 413) Five months later her brother, Barry died. 

Jan Karon returned to the language she knew best and started writing---
it became her balm....a metaphor/language for healing and comfort.

Tuesday, November 11, 2025

VETERANS'DAY!

CELEBRATING VETERANS DAY 2025

Remembering my favorite vet.

WWII Purple Heart Recipient. 
Wounded on Leyte Island in the Philippines leading his patrol.

Child of God. (1 Peter 3:15)
Son of Gena and Pap.
Wealth of words of kindness.
Evident gentleness.(Philippians 4:5)

My favorite Dance Partner



Monday, November 10, 2025

GIFTS THAT KEEP ON GIVING!

Special gifts that keep on giving are few! One such was a Frameo given by son, Josh. It allows pics from kids and their spouses to share pictures with us as they will. 
I don't have to do anything but accept the gift that continues to rotate through the screen to keep me smiling!
Today's snow pictures of youngest grandson did just that.....
......Gave me a happy heart! A Heart filled with peace and love.

The best gift that keeps on giving came to mind as I spent time in God's Word on this "Meditation Monday"---the best free gift to all who believe.
Jesus
Scripture gives the prefect picture to help one understand the sacrificial gift God gave through His Son who shed His blood that we might have eternal life in Him! A "white as snow" gift that keeps on giving!  
Come now, let us reason together, says the Lord: though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they are red like crimson, they shall become like wool. (Isaiah 1:18)
LET IT SNOW! LET IT SNOW!! LET IT SNOW!

Friday, November 7, 2025

PSALM ON SHIRT!

Traveling quite a distance with hubby to a Carolina Hand & Sports Medicine clinic, we took a quick left onto Old Balsam Rd. It was the beginning of a couple of God winks!

The place was packed; the staff were plentiful and helpful. Still lines existed to taste the apples and buy sweet "apple" treats of cider, turnovers, fritters, cookies, loaf cakes, apple pies, slushies  etc. 
But God, in His love and mercy took it a step further to a spiritual realm.
H, our check out gal, had a sweet spirit and a Psalm on her shirt. 
Front and Back. 
As the deer pants for streams of water, so my soul pants for you, my God. (Psalm 42:1) 
Conversation ensued. Leaving us more prepared for the upcoming doc appointment! If that's not a "God Wink" I don't know what is!

Soul strengthening is reason we stopped there again as we headed home. H had us laughing and sharing Elvis stories....though we did purchase a few turnovers and fritters to share with godly but ailing neighbors!
All because of a Psalm on a Shirt!

Wednesday, November 5, 2025

FULL MOON NIGHT!

In the beginning God....
.....and so begins the beautiful narrative of God's creation 

*Cathy G shared her "light"

Monday, November 3, 2025

MORE BELL RINGING!

MIND AWAKENING---LOUDER than an alarm clock!
* "Bell Ringer" turns 95 tomorrow....November 4, 2025
Thoughts from others still reverberate in my mind!
My own personal bell ringers.

Allow your mouth to be a "NO WHINE" zone. (K-Love Radio, 2010)

Don't tell God you have a Big Problem, tell your Problem you have a Big God. (ESV Bible, Marginalia)

Life without God is like an unsharpened pencil... it has no point. (Dotsy Details, 9/27/2023)

G OD
R EACHING
A CROSS
C IRCUMSTANCES
E NABLING            (Nancy Binkley's SS teacher)

REVIVAL is God's arrival! (FEC Monday's Prayer for Revival Warriors) 

C oncentrate 
O n
G od   A "look unto" cog/phrase in life! (DAL. ESV Bible marginalia, p. 780)

C onfess
O nly
G od      One's most important cog in life! (DAL. ESV Bible marginalia, p. 780)  
Look to me, and be saved, All you ends of the earth! For I am God, and there is no other. (Isaiah 45:22, NKJV)
Keep ringing those bells for me, God's people!

Tuesday, October 28, 2025

UNSTOPPABLE GOSPEL!

What a blessing.....a grandson behind the pulpit. A passing of the mantle of sorts as his father, Pastor Buddy, listened from the audience. 
Just click below the picture to hear Nathan's message at Allen Bible Church.......
  • Be emboldened by truth.
  • Expect opposition. 
  • Be willing to be a witness for Christ (as Stephen was)
  • Pain and suffering can be a catalyst for spreading God's truth as both Stephen and Jesus did.
  • Fix your eyes on Jesus.
  • I seek not a long life but a full life, like you Lord Jesus. (Jim Elliott, missionary) 
  • The gospel is unstoppable.
  • Stand for Jesus
Amen Affirmation.....0pposition cannot stop God's Gospel!